How to find peer support

Talking with people who've been where you are can make a hard healthcare experience feel less lonely. Here's where to find them.

By the QT Care team2 min read

Key takeaways

  • LGBTQ+ community centers offer support groups and local know-how.
  • Free peer support lines are run by people who share your experience.
  • Accepting communities make a measurable difference.

Support from people who understand matters. The Trevor Project found that LGBTQ+ young people in very accepting communities attempted suicide at less than half the rate of those in very unaccepting communities. Community isn't a nice extra. It's protective.

“LGBTQ community centers are vital to the mental health of this community.”

John Pachankis, Yale School of Public Health

LGBTQ+ community centers

Hundreds of LGBTQ+ centers across the country offer support groups, social events, and lists of affirming local providers. CenterLink, the network of LGBTQ+ centers, keeps a directory where you can find one near you. Researchers at the Yale School of Public Health have found that these centers play a key role in delivering mental health support, often on small budgets.

Free peer support lines

Online communities

Online groups can be especially helpful if you live somewhere without a local center. The Trevor Project runs TrevorSpace, a moderated online community for LGBTQ+ young people ages 13 to 24.

For families and allies

PFLAG has local chapters across the country where parents, family members, and allies of LGBTQ+ people meet for support.

Making it work for you

  • Try more than one. Groups have different feels. It's okay to keep looking.
  • Start small. You can listen at a meeting without sharing anything.
  • Share what you learn. Telling others about good providers helps the next person.

Sources

  1. The Trevor Project, 2024 U.S. National Survey on the Mental Health of LGBTQ+ Young People
  2. Yale School of Public Health, LGBTQ community centers vital to mental health support, May 2021
  3. The Trevor Project, 988 Lifeline LGBTQ+ youth services announcement
  4. Spectrum News, 988 press 3 option returns, September 30, 2026
  5. SAGE, National LGBTQ+ Elder Hotline

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